Is it a good idea to wait for your children to turn 18 before getting a divorce?

The concept of waiting for a child to turn 18 before separating from the child's other parent has been around for a long time. But is this really something to consider—or is it more of a myth than actual advice?

In theory, it sounds like a good idea: you and your spouse can agree to wait until your child has finished high school before getting a divorce. Your child will then be more mature and better able to deal with the split between both parents. Your children will also have the opportunity to graduate college and become financially independent, which means they won't be as much of a burden on you during this time.

But in practice, there are several reasons why this doesn't work out well. Waiting until your children are adults means that you'll likely have to put off any plans for retirement or to live your life after being divorced for many years. This could delay things even further since it may take some time before you're able to get back into the workforce after being away from it while looking after your children or taking care of your elderly parents.

If there is abuse involved in the relationship, waiting until adulthood might mean that your children will have been exposed to their parents' toxic dynamic for the entirety of their lives.

If you have questions about divorce, call this law firm that does free consultations:

Ascent Law LLC

8833 S Redwood Rd Ste C

West Jordan UT 84088

(801) 676-5506

https://www.ascentlawfirm.com/divorce/




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